Seriously. What the fuck?

So not long after I posted about Ryan's secret betrayal of me, I called her up and point blank told her how that impacted me. And we talked. A lot. And we agreed on a lot of stuff, and ended up completely back to normal. I told her I didn't want to rain on her parade anymore because she already knows what I think of her boyfriend, and she understood that I told her what I think without sugar coating because I love her like a sister, and I just want to protect her as best as I can until she makes her own choices in life.

Things were good. Things were normal.

Until today.



I called her yesterday and she promptly tells me she'll call me back and hangs up.

NO BIG DEAL. There was no emergency when I called her yesterday. I just wanted to tell her something personal because I wanted her opinion. Something I wouldn't go to anyone else about because I wouldn't be comfortable telling other people.

And what does she do when she calls me back today?

SHE FAILS TO TELL ME I'VE BEEN ON SPEAKER PHONE FOR THE ENTIRE CONVERSATION.

She could have turned off speaker phone when I started to confide in her.
But no.

She could have told me I was on speaker phone.
Again, no.

I find out because after I tell her everything I hear mumbling in the background. I ask who she's talking to, and when she tells me it's her scumbag boyfriend and I say in an agitated way "could you tell him that for ONE MINUTE I'd like to have a private conversation with my best friend?" I hear him reply, "She doesn't have to, you've been on speaker phone." I asked, "what?" and he repeated himself louder.

I felt horribly betrayed.

I was quiet for a second or two, and then I just said, "thank you, Ryan. Thanks a lot." and hung up.

She tried to call me back but I flipped open my phone and hung up without even answering.


How could she do that?